If you are doing the connections correctly and the fuse burns your problem is the pump, I imagine that you are making bridge in the Ignition Voltage that has the relief because the entrance of the battery outlet, if when I work the pump you start you can check if the computer is activating the relay because the ECU only activates the relay by giving the contact for a few seconds and when starting. The pump must consume less than 5 amps, I don't know how exactly but the greatest consumption I have seen is 4.3 amps in a pump that was working without failing.